Is Cyber sex Cheating?

Discussion in 'Dating Romance & Relationships' started by Katie, May 16, 2011.


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    I was debating this out with a friend and I can see both sides of the coin to it so not really sure where I stand on it so......

    Is cyber sex classed as cheating if you are in a 'real life physical' relationship?

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    it is because its another relationship isnt it it may be fun but its not right when you are already in a relationship

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    Fun is always good Craig lol

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    yep i think though that cyber sex is cheating when you in a relationship when your single its ok

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    But some want seconds, and in some relationship sex is non-exsistant, so i think once a partner shops being a partner, husbond or wife then they give up that right.

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    even in that case its still cheating unless you finish the relationship its still classed as cheating if your in a relationship since cyber sex is basically another relationship no matter how you say it it is cheating

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    :rolleyes: No hope for me then lol

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    awww lol

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    you feeling sorry for me yet pmsl

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    a little lol

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    Im sorry but I would say it is cheating too because like Craig said you ARE in a relationship and by talking intimately with a person and sharing things you arent with your partner then you are cheating.
    If you are using a web camera too then it is even more intimate.
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    Oh dear lol :(
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    I'd have to agree with Debs and Craig though I see where you are coming from landman if someone isn't satisfied with there relationship end it.

    I wouldn't want my partner showing all if they were with someone else I'd want to finish them if I found out there were no matter the reason.

    Ultimately with cheating someone always ends up getting hurt and you have to ask yourself can you ever justify hurting someone's feelings like that I know I couldn't.

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    Yeah I can see the side of it being cheating, but it isn' really because you are doing anything really...are you???? You aren't getting physical and you are only talking. What's the difference oggling over the opposite sex in the street and calling out to them...

    Look but don't touch....talk but don't touch

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    U can toutch me anyday kate

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    Of course it is! :p

    There's still a relationship involved there. Yours with your non-cyber one's and yours with that somebody else.

    Besides, it's like saying that 'will the relationship in real life with my wife be the same as it is when we are in heaven?'

    But, seriously. Why bother (cyber eww-ness?)?

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    I have to say that "CYBERING" would be cheating for sure. And if your in a relationship why would you need to have virtual sex anyway? :confused:

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    I think any sort of secondary relationship is cheating. If you have urges to "cybercheat" you should figure out why... Is your IRL partner a sack of potatoes in bed?
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    Yes! i would see it as cheating, not sure about others though.
    As you have a partner with whom you can have physical sports together why still seek for sex online?
    I think the cheating includes physical cheating and spiritual cheating and sex online is a mixed of the two.

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    Majority of people would probably consider a cyber relationship to be just another harmless and just-for-fun kind of thing -- and to which I disagree. Any kind of relationship that gets in between the real one can be consider as cheating. Now, of course, it would be different if you can tell that to your partner. So go ahead and ask permission and if you can get one then go and continue the connection.

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